The role of a non-sexual male in a girl’s life must be purposeful and intentional on the part of the man.
The non-sexual male plays a critical role in forming a girls opinion of men. It is integral to how she values men and ascertains her value with respect to men.
Attention seeking behavior in men and women has its roots in childhood relations and in childhood valuations.
“I’m standing in a storm with just two things that look like jumper cables saying ‘Yeah, where’s the broken daddy box?” ==Mark Maron
Blame is the externalization of one’s personal choice.
Never admitting to having done wrong is the basis of being a victim. It is he, she, them or it that is your problem and therefore it is he, she them or it that is your answer. The only thing missing in this is life you.
And that actually is the problem.
A warrior is a volunteer not a victim.
Divorce is when the un-addressed personal inadequacies and the thinly veiled aggression of the sexual relationship becoming truly known and the individuals don their pride and self-justification as armor against each other.
We view relationships as fixes or places to hide, instead of seeing them as divine guidance form the universe bringing us face to face with the weakness and sickness that we must work through to grow as individuals.
The middle aged man tries to use wisdom to flirt with youth, in an attempt to remain vibrant.
I cling to youth and will not let go, but yet cannot forgive it for its shallowness.
Shakespeare said, “to thine own self be true”.
The opposite of being true is being false. Being false is the problem, being true is the answer.
“Truth is the will and purpose of God in man.”
Life is the daily or momentary struggle against the gravity of death, a struggle that one loses in the end.
Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it. ==Mahatma Gandhi
Most of the time I’m halfway content
Most of the time I know exactly where it went
I don’t cheat on myself I don’t run and hide
Hide from the feelings that are buried inside
I don’t compromise and I don’t pretend
Thanks for saying this Bob.
The more naked to nature that one is – the closer to individually participating in the mythology of unseen powers one is.
This also gives one something meaningful to share with others.
The following are the five precepts or five virtues stated by the Buddha
- I undertake the training rule to abstain from killing. Killing and cruelty.
- I undertake the training rule to abstain from taking what is not given. Stealing.
- I undertake the training rule to avoid sexual misconduct. Acting out sexually.
- I undertake the training rule to abstain from false speech. Lying.
- I undertake the training rule to abstain from use of drugs and alcohol which cause heedlessness. Addiction.
I live here, this is my earth,
I am of this earth.